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Money and power

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Almost every little girl dream about being a princess, specially after watching a Disney's movie. Older kinds want to be a president or other famous people. They all have two things in common - money and power. source This is not a surprise that we like when someone do what we want to. People like spending money - that's not a news too. Every time I hear about this I ask myself an important question - why? If we want to have money or power (because unfortunately have money means have power), we have to work hard. That means we spend a lot of time doing something what very often doesn't make us happy. We want more and more and what we have is never enough. It shouldn't be like that. I know the money are necessary to live, because we need to pay the rent or buy the food. These things are essential, that's true. I also understand people who travel or doing something for themselves. But what I don't understand is put the money to the bank and left them there...

What do you need?

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We live in a strange world. When you do something for yourself you are called egoist. When you do something for someone, everyone thinks you have benefits because of that. And the biggest problem - why we think about others, what they do or have, instead of ourselves? (that's a problem for another post). We care about things we have to do, about time we have, about our problems. But we don't think about us. When did you last time think what you want to do? I'm almost sure you thought how you source can help your friends, about work to do, about everything concern you, but no about yourself. So now, take a minute, sit on your sofa, close your eyes. What do you need? What do you really want? It is not easy to think about ourselves in the world where you can easily be called egoist. You care about everyone, but you forget about yourself. And you should be the most important to yourself. There is no advantage of helping someone when you are not happy or satisfy. Even o...

Let's study!

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We can often hear that university will be the best time in our life. I was very sceptic about that phrase til I go there. When I think about the past I see a big difference in myself. I have changed a lot but I think that is for better. So what can university change in your life? 1. Way of thinking In hight school we learn because we have to. We go to classes because we have to. The main aim is to pass the class. There are not many students who learn for themselves. Even if I was, I never felt I learn for myself. Now I do. I do what I like, so this is not a problem to take my notes and read them. I know that will help me in the exam and thanks for good note on exam I will get a great job in the future. source 2. Attidute Positive attitude. Posivite people. Study is hard but it is easier to be an optimistic person. 3. Friendship The atmosphere is different at the university than in high school. There is a lot easier to find a real friends whith similar interestings. It...

Make dreams come true

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Travels are one of the best way to know yourself better. Specially when you travel alone. source Few weeks ago I went to France. Visiting Paris was my dream since I was a little girls and it finally came true. But this was the first time I traveled alone and it gave me another chance to know me. First of all - language. I was always afraid to speaking foreign language. But at the airport when the gate was beeping I didn't have a choice and I had to speak French. I was surprised how easy it was. A lot easier than I expected. Unfortunately when I am with someone I know I can't go through the wall in my mind and I can't speak so fluent or speak at all. Secondly - people. It is a great opportunity to know other culture and new people. This time I tried to see and listen instead of talking. And that was great. Paris always was to me a synonim of "magical place". And it is something like that. In Paris I finally felt I can do everything. Thanks for that I ...

Who you really are?

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source It is not really easy to find your place in the world. We always looking for something and we often forget what is life really about. Not money, not fame, not power. It seems important while we live, we want more and more and it's never enough. But in life the most important are people we live with. Our family, friends... It is important to find youself, make your dreams come true. You will never satisfy all, that is not possible. The only person you have to satisfy is you, no one else. Unfortunetely, people often forget about that. They work all the time instead of spending time with their families. They pretend someone else just to achieve something they want or need. Stop here for a while. Think about yourself. Who are you? What you like? What you really want? Look at the mirror. What do you see? Do you like it? At first sight, these are not hard questions, right? Just in theory. Often these questions are the most unlikely. Why? Because we are scared the answers for t...