What do you need?

We live in a strange world. When you do something for yourself you are called egoist. When you do something for someone, everyone thinks you have benefits because of that. And the biggest problem - why we think about others, what they do or have, instead of ourselves? (that's a problem for another post).
We care about things we have to do, about time we have, about our problems. But we don't think about us. When did you last time think what you want to do? I'm almost sure you thought how you
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can help your friends, about work to do, about everything concern you, but no about yourself. So now, take a minute, sit on your sofa, close your eyes. What do you need? What do you really want?
It is not easy to think about ourselves in the world where you can easily be called egoist. You care about everyone, but you forget about yourself. And you should be the most important to yourself. There is no advantage of helping someone when you are not happy or satisfy. Even our help will be more effective when we care for our mood. Positive people have more good ideas. So now, tell me what is your dream. You always wanted to win cycling race? Take you bike and start practise. You want to learn new language? Find a page on the Inthernet and start learning. Now, not tomorrow or next week. Today. You can tell "it's easy to say", but it is also easy to do. You don't have to be a master, it comes with time. Your job is keep moving. If you see that it is not for you, let go and find something else. 
Message for this week? Every day do something what makes you happy. Think more about yourself and your needs. Only so much and so much.

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