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How easy destroy someone?

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What is the easiest way to destroy someone? The answer for that question is really simple. Rumors. They can destroy everything - opinions, friendships, relationships. Sad part of rumors is that we don't have an influence for them, they just are. But definitely we can fight with this "fake news". source Why I decided to write about this topic? Because a lot of people trust in everything what they hear. And that is our real problem. Sometimes we take the things what they are, we don't think about them. This is the cause of problems with rumors. We all need to be a little critical of what we hear. It is painful when people say about us things which are not the truth, even more when our friends or family really believe it, but we can't stop it. People talk and they always will. It's not a surprise that gossips can cause a lot of trouble. We attected each other because of jealousy, hate or other reasons. But after all this "trash" we can still hav...

Pretty little liars...

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"If I'm being honest..." sing The Chainsmokers in one of their songs (link to the song -  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lsv5IeI8bA8 ). I don't know why we all are sometimes scared of the truth. I don't say that I always tell the truth because that's obviously a lie. Cast the first stone who source have never lied. We do this and I can't understand why. Sooner or later everything will come up and we will have more trouble than we would have if we said the truth instantly. There is also more pain for us and for the ones we lied.  Some time ago I did my own experiment. During one week I said only the truth. If someone asked me about my opinion, I said what was on my mind. I didn't lie, even if someone was expecting me to do that. After that week I lied but I couln't stand that more than 4 days. I had enough. Why? There are 3 major reasons. 1. Because making up the lies is a lot of harder than we expect. We're thinking we know what we...