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How easy destroy someone?

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What is the easiest way to destroy someone? The answer for that question is really simple. Rumors. They can destroy everything - opinions, friendships, relationships. Sad part of rumors is that we don't have an influence for them, they just are. But definitely we can fight with this "fake news". source Why I decided to write about this topic? Because a lot of people trust in everything what they hear. And that is our real problem. Sometimes we take the things what they are, we don't think about them. This is the cause of problems with rumors. We all need to be a little critical of what we hear. It is painful when people say about us things which are not the truth, even more when our friends or family really believe it, but we can't stop it. People talk and they always will. It's not a surprise that gossips can cause a lot of trouble. We attected each other because of jealousy, hate or other reasons. But after all this "trash" we can still hav...

Happy Easter!

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Hi everyone! I want to wish you happy Easter! I hope you spend a really great time with your family and friends, that you take a breath and gather strength for next challenges that will put life ahead of you. A little about Easter from my point of view... For me Easter is a really important time, even more since I moved to Poznań to study. I don't have a lot of time for my family now because of my duties. So when I go to home for Easter, this is the moment when everyone is in home, I can play with my little sister, talk all day with my mum and make jokes with dad. We spend time together and we really enjoy it. We can do this just twice a year, only on Easter and Christmas because when I go back to home just for weekend, my dad is usually in work, mum is busy and sister goes to differents competitons. So now is really important time for me. I hope you did spend your day as well as I did. One more time - Happy Easter!

Why do we think about others?

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In one of previous posts I promised to write something about our relations with other people. Why do we think about them? Why do we care about what they have or who they are? And what's more - why do we compare ourself with others? I think we all know the answers for these questions. First of all - we think about others when we care about them. In this group there is our family, our friends. People who also care about us. We have a strong bond so it is totally normal we think about them and that they think about us. Another thing is thinking about strangers or people we know but we don't have close relations. It is often connected with third question above. We compare ourself with them. If we are better than someone, we usually feel good. That doesn't matter in which part of life we are better. The most important is - we are better. If we are worse... There are to ways of thinking - we admire someone and we want to be like them, we are not jealous, we try to achieve...

Pretty little liars...

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"If I'm being honest..." sing The Chainsmokers in one of their songs (link to the song -  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lsv5IeI8bA8 ). I don't know why we all are sometimes scared of the truth. I don't say that I always tell the truth because that's obviously a lie. Cast the first stone who source have never lied. We do this and I can't understand why. Sooner or later everything will come up and we will have more trouble than we would have if we said the truth instantly. There is also more pain for us and for the ones we lied.  Some time ago I did my own experiment. During one week I said only the truth. If someone asked me about my opinion, I said what was on my mind. I didn't lie, even if someone was expecting me to do that. After that week I lied but I couln't stand that more than 4 days. I had enough. Why? There are 3 major reasons. 1. Because making up the lies is a lot of harder than we expect. We're thinking we know what we...