Why do we think about others?

In one of previous posts I promised to write something about our relations with other people. Why do we think about them? Why do we care about what they have or who they are? And what's more - why do we compare ourself with others? I think we all know the answers for these questions.
First of all - we think about others when we care about them. In this group there is our family, our friends. People who also care about us. We have a strong bond so it is totally normal we think about them and that they think about us.
Another thing is thinking about strangers or people we know but we don't have close relations. It is often connected with third question above. We compare ourself with them. If we are better than someone, we usually feel good. That doesn't matter in which part of life we are better. The most important is - we are better. If we are worse... There are to ways of thinking - we admire someone and we want to be like them, we are not jealous, we try to achieve our own aims. From the other side - some of us are jalous, they feel awful because they don't have or they don't are the same or better. This is our decision which way we decide to go. Obviously, jealous isn't a good way. It is better to admire and trying to do our best to achieve our own aims. 
We don't have to be the best, we won't be perfect. Anyone is. We just have to deal with this and go on. There is nothing better than being inperfect because perfect world would be boring.

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